Katt Williams Tour - Growth Spurt

Disclaimer: I am a Katt Williams FAN! Always have been and always will be!!!

So with that said let me get into this.  So Katt Williams and his crew, Ashima Franklin and Red Grant -hosted by Richie Rich,  blessed lil ole  NorthWest Mississippi and Memphis with they presence Sunday night. And it was well worth it!  Now I don't say that cuz I am a FAN borderline Stan of Katt Williams. But I guarantee them fools will have your face hurting. I thought I was gone throw up I was laughing so hard.

Are you Team Marlo or Team NayNay (NeNe)

  
Hey Y'all out there in the World. What is yall doing besides watching the  Beyonce "Partition" video? (If you had bought the Visual CD you would have seen it already. I'm just saying." Nonetheless I was just sitting here minding my own damn business scrolling through the 'Gram and came across a Funky Dineva post. Apparently Ms Marlo done threw a whole forest full of shade NayNay's way. I don't even know why I fu@#Ecks with Dineva while at work.  I needs my job cuz this blog aint making me a dime. lol

WEEZY WEDNESDAY'S

Weezy is giving us fans a look into his life with Weezy Wednesdays on YouTube. Checkout Episode 1

BasketBall Wives LA - Season 3 Episode 1

I don't even know where to start with this HOT DAMN MESS. Why is it a hot damn mess you ask? Cuz they coming with the drama before they even know each other. I guess that Reality TV money is good cuz they came out the gate showing all they ass!

The Week In Review February 14, 2014

It's been a helluva week. Where will I start. Oh I know, Lil Kim is toting a gut full.  From the pics I've seen she looks happy and great.  She's a short lil thing so I can't really speculate on how far but for the fact that this is her first baby and she's out there I will say about 6-7 months honestly.  A first time pregnancy can be hid for a long time. And according to my girl Toyia over at Gumbumper.com Lil Cease congratulated Kim on the pregnancy. It's a cute pic of the two of them "lil's."  (sidenote Kim was absolutely gorgeous way back with the lil pug nose. But sometimes people can't see themselves.) Anyhoo, Moving on....

ReaL Housewives of Atlanta - Peaches Divided

Did y'all catch that mess last night? Oh Lawd if you didn't you need to go StraightFromTheA and watch. Read her 5 Life Lessons while you at. I couldn't find a life lesson in that mess.  All I saw was grown ass folks acting like high schoolers.  That mess was summthing serrrious! They had Kandi all turned up. I dont really blame her.  They stay trying to front Kandi off and she usually just blow that shit off and keep it moving. Cuz unlike others on the show she has businesses that we can see, heard of, know about, see them expanding.

Now I could be like most and point blame.  Say she started it and he started. She shouldn't have got up. He shouldn't have got up. But in all honestly with everyone in the room being 30+ in age, everyone is to blame. And I will leave that right thur! Take from it what you want.  This was a hot damn mess. I didn't care for the attire in the first place. I wouldn't be in a room with other grown folks in my damn pajamas, night gown, lingerie, diapers, or nothing! Parading around like "yeah baby, he hit it first but you can be next" uhh uhhh. HELL TO THE DAMN NO BOBBY.  That's just nasty and makes me think something else is going on.  ALL SHADE.

And I'm just going to throw this out there. I think Apollo did hit it!!!! 

Being Mary Jane - Mixed Messages - The #2 Speech

So let me get my disclaimer out the way - I love this show. I love Gabrielle in it.  I watch it faithfully every Tuesday night!!!

With that said. I was doing my usual blog run today and most of the bloggers I follow was discussing Being Mary Jane's no.2 speech.  I understand where she was coming from.  I'm no saint myself and we gone leave it at that. She's in love with this woman's husband and want him for herself. The wife comes in the joint and subliminally blowed it up and Mary Jane needed to do some recon and let the wife know he still licking me whenever I want. So I completely understand. 

BUT WHY BE A NO. 1 OR A NO.2?

 WHO SAID THERE IS HONOR IN BEING THE BOTTOM BITCH?

I'm sorry. I've hit this age and  severe lack of tolerance for bullshit that I don't want to share, especially not my man.  You'd be better off stealing a piece of meat from a pit-bull then fucking with my emotions.  I'm not the 1, the 2, or the 3!

If I can't be the only one then miss me with the bullshit of the number 2 position.  

I don't want to be the one he trusts to take care of his business, wash his clothes, take his shit, the one he supposedly "really loves and cares about." FUCK THAT! Actions speaks volumes and most women these days are taking men for the value of their words and THEIR WORDS DONT MEAN SHIT! 

See it from a wife's point of view. He comes home because that's where he lives. Not because he wants to be there. Not because he enjoys being there. But because his shit is there. Even if he has shit strolled all across town a majority of it is at the place he gets his mail.  He shit, shower, and shave and goes to the other bitch house happy and full of life. Giving this bitch his happy face, his I "like you this is where I want to be" attitude.  Not the bullshit. Not the work.  And although it seems that I am glorifying the No. 2 position I'm not. Because she doesn't get the actual holidays, outings, family events.  She gets the sex and the happy person but not much else and not when she wants BUT when HE wants.

So what honor is there to being the No.2? What honor is there to being the No.1? 

There is a big difference between love and like.  You can love a person but NOT LIKE them  at all! This is not the same as the stages to love, where you like the person first then love them.  I used to love my ex-husband and didn't like him. NOW I don't Love or LIKE him.  I'm indifferent. I don't wish him no harm but I ain't gone cry at his funeral either.  If he ran by me on fire, IF there's a bucket of water handy I might throw it on him but I aint going out my way to find water. 

People are so use to dysfunctional relationships these days that it is becoming the norm. And although that's true it still don't make it right.  KNOW the difference people. 

Stop glorifying that Bottom Bitch Syndrome.  WE ARE WORTHY OF MUCH MORE!!!!!

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